self love, self care, and self peace is so important
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Anonymous asked:
How do you cope with feeling lonely and unloved ?
thatadult answered:
I never feel either so I don’t know I’m not trying to be edgy or funny or give a tumblr answer I don’t feel those things I’m so sorry if you do but maybe someone else has an answer
Lack of company is not indicative of your worth! Sometimes we are alone for a reason and need to be alone. You are loved always, even if you are not consistently reassured. You must always try to return love back to yourself, as others are always too immersed in their own lives to remind you of it— this doesn’t mean you are not lovable or that people do not love you. There’s so much about you to love, it’s difficult seeing it from your perspective. Understand that aloneness is temporary & that feeling unloved is just that, a feeling. It takes time to practice this way of thinking, so be careful and patient. Thoughts become irrational when we are depressed or reclusive. It’s okay. It won’t always hurt this much.
And also that you’re never truly alone. You do have yourself, and if you help create a strong bond with yourself, you can help yourself through a lot. I mean, you may feel lonely at times, but it’s going to be very hard to be when you’re there with yourself a lot!
When u tryna cut someone off but you genuinely care about them and want to love and support them for the rest of your life and they understand the deepest darkest parts of you and still love you but they’re going to leave one day and you’re gon get hurt so you gotta do it now to save your future self some pain 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂i want to fucking die lmao 🙃
Hey if you’re reading this please don’t cut that person off if y'all love & support each other just because you fear that they’re gonna leave you. Choose love. You deserve to be loved. Stop letting the abandonment issues get the best of you.
Dam
“I am slowly learning to let go of anyone who doesn’t appreciate my existence.”
— Juansen Dizon, Self-Taught
“I cleaned my apartment when no one was coming over, and cooked elaborate meals with no guests in mind but myself. I began to learn to say “no” to things, to define space for myself. I considered decisions longer, and hurt people less. With no one else’s needs into which to escape, it becomes much more difficult to skid through life on self-delusion and comfortable ignorance. Living alone is a confrontation with the mirror, a removal, if only for certain hours of the day, from the social contract, outside the systems of manners that grow up around women like strangling vines. It is becoming the witch in the forest, powerful and watchful and silent, setting visitors on edge. […] The things I miss could be seen as childish, a state of being in which I was never obligated to consider anyone’s needs other than my own. Women are pushed out of childhood so quickly, shoved without ceremony into the heavy social obligations of adulthood. Living alone is a reminder that we can make our bodies antisocial, hoarding our selfishness and our silence. Loneliness and solitude are privileges of thoughtless and full-throated adulthood traditionally handed to men and kept from women. They are the strange and rich pleasures of the world beyond the social, beyond the structures of home and family.”
I hate when people waste my time. I waste enough of my time by my own damn self. I don’t need anyone adding to it.
Rest and self care are so important. When you take to replenish your spirit, it allows you to serve others from the overflow. You cannot serve from an empty vessel.
Eleanor Brown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
I hope the next thing I get addicted to is taking care of my self and loving my body